财务上的成功

金钱与灵性– A Common Dilemma

撰写:尼克·奥尔特纳

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All too often, incredibly smart, caring people with amazing ideas and talents for transforming the planet hold themselves back from 赚ing 钱 because of a belief, either conscious or unconscious, that it isn’t spiritual to 赚 钱.

Or maybe that if 他们 赚ed a lot of 钱, that 他们 would somehow be corrupted or “bad” in some way. They may also believe that 您 can’既要成为好人又要有钱– that 您 somehow have to do something 坏 to become wealthy.

不幸的是,在这个时代’s all too easy to turn on the news and hear about corrupt businessmen and politicians who have 不要e something unethical to 赚 钱. Sadly, there is not enough news about all of the amazing wealthy people that are changing the world in powerfully positive ways.

即使时代已经变了,但是即使有很多开发者,他们也仍然面临着问题:他们觉得自己不应该为自己所做的事情付费。

This limiting belief that 赚ing 钱 is not spiritual has not only held back healers like Tapping practitioners and coaches but SO many others in a wide range of industries.

让我从一个简单的事实陈述开始,这一点很重要…

There are examples of both people doing unethical things to 赚 钱 in the world, as well as people 赚ing 钱 doing amazing, completely ethical things who are serving the world.

钱 itself is not the determining factor in whether a person is good or 坏.

If 您 disagree with that statement in any way, I think it’s worth taking a look at where 您r beliefs on 钱 have come from and how 他们’re affecting 您.

Take a moment to think about 您r beliefs around 钱 and 灵性…

钱Do 您 think 您’d still be a good person if 您 had a lot of 钱?

Do 您 worry that 您 would somehow be corrupted?

What do 您 think others would think of 您 if 您 had a lot of 钱?

Do 您 think it’s right or fair to 赚 a lot of 钱 for helping people?

Should 您 be paid if 您’在努力帮助人们或其他精神上的努力吗?

这些都是重要的问题。

让我们看一下解决此问题的两种情况:

案例研究1:兴奋的潜在开发从业者

玛丽 works for a financial services company as an administrative assistant. She makes $45,000 per year, has good health benefits, and 感觉s generally secure in her job. 不幸, she doesn’t enjoy it one bit. Every other Friday she has her paycheck direct-deposited into her bank account, and along with her husband’s salary, it makes ends meet.

She never has to ask for this 钱. Every year or two she gets a small raise and she continues onward. The subject of “money” rarely comes up for her with regard to receiving it from her employer. She doesn’t question the work 他们 do or the profits 他们 are 赚ing but is content to get her paycheck.

One day, 玛丽 discovers EFT Tapping and is THRILLED with the results she gets for herself and her family members. She does more training, gets her hands on all the free resources she can, and begins to become quite proficient at Tapping. She dreams of helping other people, but she just keeps doing “free” sessions.

People even offer to pay her because 他们 are delighted with the results, but she just “doesn’t 感觉 right taking the 钱.” She believes the work itself was so much fun, so rewarding, that 钱 shouldn’t be involved. More and more people start coming to her, and she quietly exclaims to herself, “How I would love to do this full time!”

但是,当她与丈夫坐下来讨论她离职的话题时,数学并没有加起来。她的丈夫说:“如果您每小时收费75美元,并且一年中有50个电玩游戏机日每天有3个客户,那么我们将以您目前的工资(包括福利和其他福利)为准。”

“$75 per hour???” 玛丽 says. “There is no way I could charge that, that’s not right at all. I would 感觉 completely uncomfortable.” Her husband replies, “Do 您 think what 您’re providing is worth $75 per hour?” 玛丽 reasons, “Well, people do get amazing results faster than anything else 他们’我尝试过。前几天,我与某人合作,他接受了5年的治疗,并花费了超过10,000美元,我们在一个疗程中就解决了她的问题!但… It still wouldn’t 感觉 对。我只是不能为此付费…”

So there, sadly, the story ends. 玛丽’s limiting belief about receiving, about charging 钱 for her healing work, leaves her at her unfulfilling job. The consequences of this belief are profound.

And not just for 玛丽, but for the hundreds of people she could have helped… If only she had been able to accept the fact that 钱 – that the energy of 钱 –这是尘世经验的现实,学会提供治疗服务时要求和接受它可以改变世界。

Are 您 a “Mary”? How many “Marys” could be out in the world right now, changing lives on a daily basis?.

案例研究2:梦想,愿景和“金钱”

第一个案例研究是假设性的,尽管我一遍又一遍地看到现实生活中的例子。接下来的故事是真实的…因为这是我的故事!

就在十年前的今天,我梦想着创作一部关于《拍击》的纪录片。我一遍又一遍地看到了我的生活以及我的朋友和家人的生活,并感到世界需要对此有更多的了解!请注意,我没有电影制作经验,没有设备,没有员工,只是梦想…但是我还是出发去拍这部电影。

我致力于愿景和梦想,但在财务方面也很实际。你看,要拍电影,我必须投入我没有的15万美元!我把它们全部放在信用卡和信贷额度上,力所能及。然后我去朋友和家人借钱和拍电影。我的姐姐和其中一位制片人杰西卡·奥尔特纳(Jessica Ortner)以及我的密友,导演和编辑尼克·波利齐(Nick Polizzi)辛勤电玩游戏机了两年多。

他们也致力于愿景,梦想,经验…但是他们也知道在某些时候,这部电影必须在财务上可行,才能为他们的努力获得回报,因此他们可以偿还信用卡债务 他们 还应计并能够继续进行这项电玩游戏机。

我希望当我想到这个主意时,我可以打电话给抵押公司,信用卡公司,当地杂货店,保险公司,汽车公司,电话公司,电力公司,供暖公司…

对他们说:

“Dear Sirs, I’ve just come up with a fantastic idea that I truly believe is going to change the lives of millions of people around the world. I want to share the knowledge about an incredible technique and do it in a documentary format, so people can see real results that 他们 could use to change their lives. It will truly be for the betterment of humanity, and I’ll even give 您 copies of the film when it’s 不要e!”

Then 他们 could have said to me, “Great idea 缺口! We’ll stop charging 您 for everything 您 need to live, so 您 can put this plan into action!”

不幸…游戏不是真的那样运作,对吗?

因此,如果我要使其运转,偿还$ 150,000 +(电影的最终预算),能够维持自己和家人的生活,我只是必须使其在财务上可行。这意味着我必须尽我所能,不仅要创造出优质的产品(幸运的是,我们网站和Amazon.com上的评论显示最终产品功能强大并且正在改变生活),而且我还必须竭尽所能卖了

哦!另一个脏话! 卖!

啊… Icky… Dangerous…

不,这不对。这是现实。

If I wanted to make this whole dreamwork, I simply had to be able to sell the film, and sell other things. Otherwise, I’d have to be like 玛丽, and go back to a “job.”

我选择的结果是什么?

由于所有的电玩游戏机,我’ve 不要e helping others, I’ve been able to 不要ate hundreds of thousands of dollars to organizations I really believe in –例如在卢旺达与种族灭绝幸存者一起使用EFT的Project Light,与退伍军人一起使用EFT的退伍军人压力项目,正在非洲建立学校的Unstoppable基金会以及正在帮助与纽约市打交道的妇女的You Can Thrive基金会癌症。

我不会’如果我认为不是’t right for me to make 钱 or that it wasn’t spiritual.

事实是,我认为我’我现在是一个更加扎根于精神和诚实的人’曾经去过。我觉得我’ve 不要e more to help people around the world in the last couple years then I did in the 10 years before that, all while making more 钱 then I’我曾经做过。无论您是从事企业还是电玩游戏机,每天都没有什么决定,您可以选择做正确的事来赚钱,也可以选择做错误的事。

例如,对于我的业务“online world,”我可以选择以我自己的方式销售产品和课程’向人们传授我的知识’m提供,然后让他们选择是否’是否适合他们。或者,我可以选择使用诱使他们购买的操纵技术。

I’我几乎每天都会面对这种选择。如果你’re in business or have a job within a company, 您 have similar choices every day. You can choose to do things in a way where 您r goal is to help people and serve them while making 钱, or 您 can do things in a way where 您r focus is on making 钱 first.

But ultimately, how much 钱 您 charge or 赚 is not the issue.


If 您’re doing things in a way that is serving the world and helping others, then 您 deserve to have as much 钱 as 您 want!


So 您 see, it all “works” when everyone gets in alignment with the energy of 钱. When we stop bickering about someone “selling” their healing skills, or how it should all be free. I’最近,我一直在说,在任何行业中可能发生的最好的事情是,人们要弄清楚如何使数十亿美元用于为人类服务的事情。

If 您 have ideas and a passion for something that helps others and helps 您rself, then 不要’t let anything stop 您! Don’t hold back 您r unique gifts from the world. You deserve to have everything 您’ve ever wanted. 🙂

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Discover the 103 disempowering beliefs that may be holding 您 back from achieving the 钱 and success 您 desire.

Are 您 ready to tap those limiting beliefs away?

Is it OK for people to make a lot of 钱?

Are 您 finally ready to unplug from what the rest of society tells 您 and blaze 您r own trail?

直到下一次…

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缺口


What limiting beliefs might 您 have about 钱 or selling? Share 您r comments below.

尼克是The Tapping Solution的首席执行官和创始人



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  1. 玄农林 说:

    嗨尼克. I am interested on obtaining a video for tapping for 财务上的成功. Please tell me how can I order it and the costs of the video. Thank 您. Xuan Nuong

  2. 简·米林 说:

    辛苦了,谢谢

  3. 安妮·库尔金(Anne Culkin) 说:

    嗨尼克
    窃听解决方案对我来说是神圣的干预,因为它突显了这些年来我一直在出错的地方。我只需要努力。
    安妮·库尔金(Anne Culkin)

  4. 乔伊斯 说:

    我需要这个谢谢。我是个艺术家。我很好。我对自己的电玩游戏机负责,尤其是我认识的人,这让我非常不舒服。我想学习如何克服这个问题。我现在几乎要失去家了……。我随时准备开始窃听并相信自己。

  5. 迈亚 说:

    缺口, Thank 您 SO much for shining light on a topic that creates Huge roadblocks and speed bumps for people all over the planet. Clarifying that 钱 is not the problem, but rather our beliefs about it, creates space for new thinking about 钱 and the way it impacts How big or small we individually live our life, and therefore the affect of 钱 in the world.
    You are a fantastic Light worker on the planet. Thank 您 for all 您 are and all 您 do! Maia

  6. 伊莎贝尔 说:

    I think this was a very important issue to raise. And so cool of 您 to bring up 缺口! 🙂
    I think that many have been brought up to believe that wanting 钱 is not a good thing. And that wanting = greed and greed = selfish and selfish = 坏.

    I honestly think, and 感觉, that everyone is deserving of a good life, and having 钱 to provide for 您r family, eat well and healthy, travel, inspire and be inspired is very much okay! The universe is an abundant place and there is truly enough for everyone.

    If “Mary”觉得她想放弃帮助’s also fine, if however, it would make her happy, as the story goes, to do this everyday and for a living, it does become necessary for her to actually get paid. And she could, as the story goes, help so many more people, than if she had to take on a regular day job on the side! Now she could chose, as I know other EFT practioners have 不要e, to make it cheaper for students, elderly people or people without jobs, I know EFT practioners who even offer to do it for free for people that cant afford it, on case to case basis. But it isn’即使您的电玩游戏机正在康复,也不要为获得电玩游戏机报酬而自私或贪婪。您所做的所有其他事情都会获得报酬,护士和医生也将获得报酬,这项电玩游戏机同样有价值,并且生活在改变! (我不是EFT的从业者-只是要清楚,但我使用的是技术!)。

    我认为这种信念也源于另一种信念:您为自己想要东西而自私。我相信我们应该像爱别人一样爱自己,我们应该像我们希望并打算给予他人一样,以同样的爱和尊重对待自己。

    基本上,它不是将其视为道德问题,而是’在看你的意图。 Isn’当我们的意图是传播尽可能多的治愈和爱时,这是一个美好的世界吗?如果我们能在谋生的同时谋生,那怎么可能是一件坏事呢?如果可以并且愿意的话,可以免费这样做,但是在我看来,它并没有’t make 您 a better person than one doing it and 赚ing a living on it simultaneously.

    And as for the worlds unfairness issue, I can only say that there is a huge need for consciousness elevation and healing for changes to happen, and each and everyone of us are co creators of this world, and have a very direct impact on all the lives that we touch. And we can make personal, every day choices that help the planet. The more work that can be 不要e to heal, spread love and non judgement the closer we are to creating a more just world.

    Thank 您 缺口 and Jessica for the wonderful work 您 do and the light that 您 spread! <3

  7. 苏菲霜 说:

    Hey NICK, I am a huge fan of 您 and Jessica. I loved tapping with 您 both live. I really enjoyed it very much. I need lots of help financially and also suffering from lot of stress at the moment.
    I thank 您 both for tapping. At the moment I have a long way to go. I hope tapping will help me now and always. thank 您 again.

  8. 达娜 说:

    The study at Berkeley is unnerving at best and deeply disturbing at worst. How are we to overcome, with or without tapping, our biases about 钱, if the ‘you’re rich i.e. 您r a jerk’因素似乎甚至发生在‘pretend 您 are rich’ scenario????

    这里的其他人则评论了世界上的不公正和不平等;更不用说这样的事实,如果更多的人变得富裕,将会给地球带来更多的生态问题。

    Wealth is a relative state. There are people in the world who 不要’甚至没有干净的水,或管道,供暖/制冷,冷藏……更不用说所有基本生活所需的电力了;他们认为按照我们的标准被视为贫穷的人非常富有。

    I think the problems good and decent, but non-wealthy, people have around 钱 are complicated as well as deep and we need a series of taps to address this labyrinthine issue.

  9. 珍妮佛 说:

    First of all, I think that 玛丽, that exited Financial Services employee, SHOULD continue NOT CHARGING for her services. If the people she helped liked her services and wanted to pay – she should direct them to 不要ate at one of her favorite CHARITIES. 那 way, everybody is happy! and 玛丽 still retains her integrity (“她认为这项电玩游戏机非常有趣,很有收获,因此不应涉及金钱)”.

    与他人分享他们学到的东西完全可以– without bringing 钱 into the equation.

  10. Flora Elmore 说:

    尼克,我将与我的直觉艺术学生分享您的博客。如此多的灵通从业人员对直觉读者进行了编程,使他们相信他们必须为自己的钱受苦,或者他们必须电玩游戏机很长时间才能“earn”生活。我一直在问他们,你在哪里捡到你不值得或很难的想法?感谢您的精彩文章,我一定会分享。 http://www.thegoodlucklady.com

  11. 辛西娅 说:

    是的,我准备好了!
    我可以!

    谢谢。

  12. 说:

    我坚信,宇宙具有无限的丰富性,并且那里有足够的丰富性,每个人都可以拥有一些。但是,如果我们用我们的繁荣来帮助他人,那么这就是真正的回报所在,并且知道您在这个星球上短暂停留期间做出了贡献就感到满足

  13. 阿维斯里昂 说:

    我感谢您为创建一个更好的世界所做的一切,尼克,杰西卡和团队。我用一切轻拍,认为这对我的健康至关重要。我说了算。避风港’t tapped on 钱/finances yet, begins today. Wishing 您 all continued blessings.

  14. 卡尔·坦博(Carl Tambeau) 说:

    很棒的帖子尼克–我在个人理财领域,经常想知道为什么信息在网络上时我会收取理财费用,但是您的文章很清楚。这是我的激情,从教练的角度来看,我有很多东西可以提供给人们。感谢您的分享,我将引导人们回到本文。

  15. 雷切尔·迪迪(Rachel Dutilly) 说:

    亲爱的尼克:成为天主教修女26年后,您可以想象我对“money”. I am no longer a nun but the self sabotaging beliefs I had with regards to having 钱, needing 钱, wanting 钱 and getting paid for services etc were many. I’ve started tapping around 钱 issues and things are changing ! 谢谢 for all the work 您 do. Blessings to 您, Rachel

  16. 苏·西风 说:

    正如我们必须“face the negative”通过攻牙来治愈我们的根源创伤,我们需要面对这样一个事实,即即使有可能,每个人都以百万富翁的身份生活,我们的星球是不可持续的。求求您关注有关帮助人类和改变世界的简单断言–don’t assume that’是所有人的目标,甚至是EFT从业人员。您当然已经走过了与卢旺达和纽敦的谈话。但是,您内心深处知道,奥尔特纳先生,您正在发挥主导作用,在这里,我们很早就经常被灌输这一欲望:要感到幸福和自尊,我们必须积累金钱和消费品。许多土著文化教会人们在奉献自己的财产中找到自己的价值,特别是照顾年老体弱的年轻人。它’s not enough to “fix 您r finances”在真空中。您能谈谈正义的必要性吗?对于我们的集体生存而言,具有全球视野?您和您都聪明又善良。我知道你可以做到

  17. 特里 说:

    很棒的文章。当我感到压力时,我喜欢轻按,然后在几分钟后注意到我’我不再压力了… I’m ready to start tapping for 钱 to help others and for weight loss. Thank 您 so much for changing my life with EFT.

  18. 紫兰瑟 说:

    Hello 缺口. I am a big fan of the work 您 and 您r family are doing. I took part in the summit and tap regularly. I have confronted many unconscious thoughts that were holding me back in many ways in my life.

    然而,关于财务的这篇文章缺少一些东西。请看一下伯克利科学家的电玩游戏机 http://u.pw/1gUFn2Q 。有充分的证据表明,拥有更多的东西会使我们有一种应享的权利,并使我们想要更多。即使拥有强大价值的人也会因拥有更多东西而改变。

    What I love about 您r work is that it takes me to my core beliefs so I can then challenge them. But if we are hardwired to enjoy being one up …. I 不要’不知道拍打是否能让我或其他任何人改变我们的生理机能。

    I look forward to 您r comments.
    真诚和感激
    紫色

  19. 玛丽 说:

    Thank 您 缺口. Here I am another 玛丽 感觉ing like it is not right to charge for healing work. I will keep tapping to clear what is stopping me.

  20. 大。 说:

    完全同意。窃听确实有很多帮助。买了这本书由澳大利亚的两位医生合着–来自珀斯和悉尼/阿德莱德?阅读了很多次,一直在窃听。一直渴望将它介绍给所有进入我生活的人–年轻人与老年人之间。我非常热衷于分享。很高兴注意到像您这样的人正在互联网上进行介绍。通过阅读,现在可以通过音频,视频等方式,我学得最好。我自学成书,可以游泳,也可以观看女儿由游泳教练教的知识!我曾经很害怕下水,从那以后我克服了很多恐惧。我想起了一位伟大的加拿大医生,“discovered”在尝试了许多其他疗法以帮助他的患者克服对水的恐惧之后,将其作为一种疗法!!西瓦

  21. 克里斯汀·科布 说:

    很棒的技术和
    感谢您介绍给我,
    您r generosity..thanks!
    It’s the real deal~as ‘they’ say~
    我正在尽力‘电玩游戏机攻丝程序’..
    都需要时间,耐心比比皆是
    感谢。
    Gratias,Merci,Danke等等等!

  22. Bhaskar Thakar 说:

    During this time i am requiring a hand some 钱 for my smooth life.
    在做我应该说的事时,请告诉我。
    谢谢

  23. 克莱尔·费尔特斯 说:

    文章公平诚实。并令人鼓舞。

  24. 说:

    谢谢尼克,很棒的文章。我是整体护理的RN认证。我最近将EFT添加到我使用的方式中。我看到了惊人的结果。有时我仍然对指控他人感到内。该抽些时间自己动手了!!

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